the south side…

theen here sent my attention on the statements I placed under the “who I want to meet?” friendster section.  It goes “the one who my heart belongs to, like the stars with the sky. The one I bring roses to, and say everyday I love you. The one that I travel hundred miles to just see her smile… The one who I wish I could be with forever. Like how water remains in the streams and constantly flowing. The one I want to stay by my side, and bring our fairy tales alive…”

Then I wondered… And thinking a person as such as a pessimistic that I am would lay my ideals of the subject matter on that premise. I was hyped perhaps when I wrote that. Just wasn’t congruent on what the real side of this intricate blue planet had shown me.

Some were just bare fortunate to have had found a fairy tale. Or some may had been too patient and lucky in their search for their “they live happily ever after” story or was too patient in webbing the magic of their own. But patience and sacrifices aint always enough. Nor all the ingredients for everlasting love plus all the virtues and guiding principles of love won’t guarantee cupid’s blessings.

I concluded into myself even long before that the so called “destined one” was just aint real. One cannot even justify that they had found their destined someone even in the binds of marriage. ‘coz what if they suddenly got separated, like someone got involved with somebody else, or if one day they woke up and suddenly finds out that they had fallen out of love. It may always happen, to anyone, to anybody however strong the love that they have from the start.

So it is, dream love is nothing but a dream. Perfect love doesn’t exist. And finding one aint worth it. And one should at least be happy when the love he/she found was just not the right one, ‘coz its much better to have it than the right and perfect love that was never found.

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